As finals have been kicking my ass with vengeance, I have had some time to self reflect on life. Odd timing… but when things get hectic I like to sit back and realize what is really important RIGHT NOW. I evaluate what I need to focus on and what can I get rid of to make me happier and stress free.
Okay lets go ahead and start with useless drama that I discovered I have right now:
1. Friend drama
2. Stressing over final grades
3. Stressing over trying to eat healthy and work out enough.
All three are pointless…
I can’t become to emotionally involved in friend’s drama because it stresses me out. All I can do is give them my best advice and hope that they can figure it out on their own.
For finals… I’ve worked my butt off all semester. All I can do is study hard and try my best.
Stressing out over being healthy and working out is a toughie because it’s important! As long as I try my best and work hard at making sure I get the right nutrients and working out an adequate amount I’m fine! I’m healthy and I shouldn’t be too hard on myself about it.
The song 4th of July by Stephen Kellogg, introduced to me by my good friend Brigid has the line, “Did you ever think that if you're not happy it's because of you.” This song has really inspired me to relax and realize the good things I have, and why I should be so proud and happy. I have great friends, a wonderful boyfriend, and a beautiful family all who care for and support me! SO FINALS, bring it on! Everyone is in control of their own happiness. So cut out the drama and surround yourself with people and things that make you happy. This is especially important during stressful times like finals.
Find a playlist that will inspire you to relax. My best advice for finals is free yourself of the excess drama and focus on the things that make you happy. Right now shopping for shoes I can’t afford is easing some stress… take a minute and drool over these luxury shoes and bags J. I have a fetish with black and white and sparkly things!
Xx good luck on finals.















